BREAKUPS... WHY DOES THE
PAIN NEVER STOP?
Breaking up hurts, and it hurts more than most any other experience you will
ever have...sometimes even more than losing one to death. The reason is that
(for most breakups) the person who is initiating the break up is doing so
with the intent to end the relationship. When someone dies they do not make
the conscious and purposeful decision to abandon you or leave you. They do
not deliberately withdrawal their love from you. When someone dies you can
freely grieve and get emotional support, comfort, understanding and sympathy;
you can go through rituals and get closure; and you are allowed to cry endlessly
and be told that it is okay to feel sad...
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